Questions women ask us
The questions women bring to their letter
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Love and relationships
- Why do I keep choosing people who don’t choose me?Often it isn’t bad luck or bad taste.
- Why do I lose myself in every relationship?It rarely happens all at once.
- What does my birth chart say about love?Your birth chart doesn’t say who you will meet.
- Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?It often has less to do with them than with what their distance wakes in you.
- How to let go of someone you still loveLetting go rarely happens by deciding to.
- Starting over after divorce: who am I without him?After a long marriage, much of your attention pointed toward one person: his moods, his days, your shared home.
- Why do I feel so alone in my marriage?To feel alone next to someone is its own kind of lonely.
- Should I stay or leave my marriage?When you weigh staying against leaving, the two sides rarely settle, because every time one grows heavier you feel the weight of the other.
Yourself
- People pleasing: why do I always say yes when I want to say no?The yes usually comes before you know what you feel.
- Codependency: why do I hold everything together for everyone?Holding everything together often starts as love and turns into a job nobody gave you.
- Finding yourself after 40: where did I go?Many women reach their forties after years of being steady for everyone else: work, family, bills.
- Why does the heaviness keep coming back, even when life is good?When there is a problem to solve, you solve it, and the heaviness has nowhere to land.
Money and safety
- Why is there never enough money, no matter how hard I try?When trying harder hasn’t changed it, the problem is usually not effort.
- What does my birth chart say about money?Your birth chart doesn’t say how much money you will have.
A restless mind
Your birth chart and your name
- What does my birth chart say about me?Your birth chart is the sky at the minute and the place you were born.
- What does my birth name say about me?Your birth name is the name you were given before anyone knew you, and for many women it isn’t the name they use now.
- Moon sign meaning: what your Moon says about how you feelIn astrology, your Sun sign describes how you show up and your Moon sign describes how you feel: what you need to feel safe, and what you do when a feeling gets too close.
A gift for her
- A gift for a mom who has everythingWhen she already has everything, give her something no one else can: a letter written only for her, about the one question she carries.
- A meaningful Christmas gift for her: a letter written only for herFor the woman who makes everyone’s Christmas, give her something that is only hers: a personal letter about the one question she carries.